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Woman’s Boyfriend Summoned their Waiter with a Bell He Brought – People Beg her to Dump Him

They say you can tell a lot about a person by how they treat a waiter.

A person recently posted on Reddit’s “Am I The A******” subreddit to vent about her American boyfriend, Rhett.

She did not specify where she lives. But she did say that Rhett is living abroad, in her home country; and that they have been dating for four months.

She writes, “Rhett was already there when I arrived to the diner. We talked some, checked the menu, then, when it was time to order, he pulled a small bell out of his jacket pocket, lifted it up, and then started shaking it. […] I was so confused, I asked what he was doing and he said he was trying to get one of the wait staff’s attention. I said it was embarrassing and he should stop right then but he kept shaking it. I can not begin to explain the looks we received from everyone. I demanded him to stop but he said he wouldn’t until someone came and took our order. I threatened to leave the place and cancel dinner if he wouldn’t and he kept doing it. Someone came, but I’d already gotten up, took my purse, and started making my way out. He followed me and started arguing about walking out but I told him that I couldn’t take being embarrassed by him. He got upset and said that he didn’t get why I thought the bell was embarrassing, explained that it was a perfect solution for no longer being forced to wait ‘til someone shows up. I asked if it was acceptable to do this in America and he said, ‘Yes because it’s a free country and people there usually don’t give a [poop],’ but I said it’s inappropriate and embarrassing here. He said I was being too sensitive and overreacted over nothing. He insisted we go back inside but I refused.”

She went on to say that they never had dinner; then he skulked for days, and wanted her to give him an apology.

Many commented that they were from the US, and that his behavior was beyond inappropriate. Many others urged her to get out of the relationship as soon as possible.

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